1. Hilda, when you wrote "I thought about it and attempted to talk about it but this person, with others, just held their position," you showed that these people are not worth worrying about. They didn't want to learn anything new, and in my view they are subhuman, though perhaps temporarily.

I guess they were too full of themselves to consider that you, who work with criminals all day and every day, might know something about them.

2. What kind of low-order person starts a wrangle at a funeral,for heaven's sake?