We should all take a lesson from this story. The Musical memories & stories told by our elders and family members are treasures. When I was but a young teen I once asked my Granny how she & my Grandad met. A few decades later, I mentioned this in passing to an aunt and found out that none of my 10 aunts and uncles had ever heard the story. I no longer remember the details, just the general idea. Now I'm wishing that I'd taken a tape recorder for that visit. Perhaps a good hypnotist could help me recall the details.