I have to agree with you Richard (as much as I hate to admit it).

After my divorce, we still had to share the kids and 'work it out'.

I soon found that I had a lot more when I was married to him.

But then again, he didn't get to share may bed anymore, either.

None of the above should discourage anyone from seeking companionship. I still think its preferable to living alone unless you can't give up control of your schedule and your finances or you are just 'unfit' to live with. Then again, if you find love, none of that will matter anymore.