Sooooooooooo, Clare, where ya from?? We 'mercans aren't always able to tell here in cyberspace. I've followed this fascinating thread in silence but I must say, I'm holding all of you in the Light, until you Lighten Up- there's been a lot of gentle jabs that seem to cut right to the quick and I order you all to hold hands and sing "It's a small world after all" and call me in the morning.
Allison-with-2-ls-who-is-NOT-dim-and-NOT-a-miserable-git NOI BG LOL ESQ