BSeed,Firsty, NEVER EVER call me 'luv'
And you say that you're not being patronising or condescending??? Try speaking to a few women...
Secondly, this is not yours or Bajer's forum. You may well have some cosy things going on with your friends here but I have as much right as you to say anything that I want.
You may not understand my sense of humour - tough. Learn to put up with it.
Clare