Hey Sad But Secretive,

    To answer the question to the title of this thread...YES, I have found my soulmate....I am in love with, love, highly respect and like my husband for the man he is, for his heart, for his mind...the rest is just icing my friend!!!!!!!!!

   Now I have a question for you...since when does weight have a thing to do with matching souls? The body is going to change over the years...if you fall in love with the body only, you are NEVER going to be happy....we all gain or lose weight, get wrinkles, some lose hair, others find it growing out of odd places, eyesight fails, hearing fades, the ability to move freely changes.

Are you confusing physical attraction with something else?

Michelle