BTW Dave's Wife-- PM stands for PRIVATE Message, and it's long been considered a major breach of Mudcat etiquette to refer to a PM in threads. I chose to object privately rather than attack you in the thread-- you respond by attacking me. Maybe you don't realize that some of us use PMs to give people a chance to clear up things they may have inadvertently said or done, without embarrassing them in public. You chose to defend your crap instead of take responsibility for it, and to attack me publicly in the process. OK, if that's the way you want it-- Who's the ninny?

I stand by my objection to your attitude about fat, and fat people. PERIOD. I don't care how anyone else saw or or what you thought you meant to convey... according to me, you were out of line, and you can deal with that or not as you please.

~Susan