I have seen some comments in threads that were crude, rude and unreasonbaly personal ... not many. And I've seen some that were nasty ... even fewer. I have also seen many responses to threads to and from individuals who were really hot about the issue,and yet took the time to make strong statements of disagreement that were not personal attacks. Sometimes those statements were construed as hurtful, but often they were seen at face value. I have seen healthy debate here more often than I have seen childish, nasty name calling. Mayeb I'm an optimist ...

I have also seen Mudcatters rising to the defense of others when bad nasty comments have been made. All in all, we have a pretty good mix. I agree with moonchild's original sentiment; that it is important for us to consciously protect our air of civility; even when we disagree strongly.

Fairness is not what I dare expect from this world, but it is what I seek to achieve. Likewise, I understand civility may not be required of those with whom I communicate, but it is what I expect of myself. Great thread.