"Azizi - does it ever occur to you that you may cause needless division and offence to others in your ernest attempts to try ensure that they do not cause offence to you and your particular racial grouping?"

She's one helluva lot smarter than you are, Shambles. I don't doubt she's considered that.

Azizi, this thread has prompted some great responses and maybe a few one could expect. I am glad it's here. I too pray for the day when colour don't matter, race don't matter. It won't come soon enough. IMO.