I assume she rued the daysss, nay, yearsss, that she treated me so poorly. Knowing her, however, she may have rejoiced in having treated me so poorly for as long as I put up with her crap. That sounds cynical, but, I was there... for thirteen years, five months, seventeen days, eleven and a half hours. Bitter? No. Better.

As far as the next thread, entitled, "What did you do after your ex ?", well, my tenth anniversary is just three weeks away and I intend to celibate. Alone, as it were.