I am going to put some links here for programs in Child Abuse Prevention Programs CAPP. There are some guidelines that are used in elementary education The title (and the goal) is to help kids be
Safe, Strong and Free.
"the Child Assault Prevention Program (CAPP), an international program that began in 1978. CAPP is under the auspices of the National Assault Prevention Center and is currently implemented in 32 states and 10 other countries."

http://www.ncap.org/

http://www.ebac.org/508/programs/school/cap.asp

http://www.volunteersolutions.org/vcswfc/org/opp/235728-detailed.html

http://www.napac.org.uk/support/groups/detail.asp?id=29