No, he doesn't,you are right. How's about this gem..."Adapt to his way of life. Accept his friends, food, and life-style as your own. Ask him to write the six most important changes he'd like to see take place at your house. Read the list in private, an set out to accomplish these changes with a smile. Be a "Yes, Lets!" woman every day."
Any wonder WHY there was a 50% divorce rate at the time?