Hi Betsy, lots of stuff going on around here, if you PM with your email I'll send you my infamous list. Here's a few links - the Chanticleer linked in posts above by Mooman is the closest one!

Anchor folk club in Byfleet
Ram club in Claygate
Horsham folk club
Maidenhead Folk club
Sutton acoustic
Twickenham Folk Club
Windmill at Ewshot
Tanners Hatch

I live in Leatherhead, wish I was in a position to offer accomodation but it's a bit cramped. You'd be welcome for a few nights if you wanted to come down as a base while you're checking things out though. Not often around at weekends though - too many festivals & stuff! Looking forward to meeting you,
Hil