I intend to write to Julia, to try and further some of the things we talked about.

I will certainly include the highlights of this thread, to let Nic and Julia know how much we love them.

Hope I'm not starting a healing thread here :-) (joke)

Don't want to sound condescending, so:

Look forward to and buy 'In search of..2' (and buy it as a present for everyone you know)

Be as cross as you like... but don't directly interfere. It's their fight.

If you are, or happen to know a decent 'backcrupcy' lawyer - get in touch.

If you happen to believe in voodoo - make a wax doll of Mr Bulmer, and stab like hell...

Clare