:) After being subjected to a 'strapping' by a Teacher at School (they did used to belt us with a Leather belt on our hands, the teacher that day was very determined that I would get these wee words correct resulting in being strapped 24 times, full force, hands swollen like ballons because I just couldn't see the diffrences in to, too, two I got the concept but kept spelling them incorrectly.
I have commited my Life (**BG**) to not really caring how someone spells something if I know what they mean by their spelling of the Word.
Mild Dyslexia was found to my prob...and The Strap , as it was called, well it dun nothin to help my speling..lol

I know what you are saying Janie as I have a friend who I get to sing with now and again and it's harmonies with us. I can never really tell who is singing the harmonies but have no problem hearing the difference in our voices when one of us is carrying the melody. Like yourself I uselly blame the buddy if the Harmony is off..heehee and vice versa. That indeed is what Friendship is about..:>)

Best Wishes to all
Love and Light
Jude