This thread is becoming nasty. The thread lacks backbone from those members who are aiming fire certain directions and haven't the guts to name names. If you have taken offence or been offended why not ask certain members if they now wish to apologize to you. Possibly they could have made remarks on the heat of the moment. I would much prefer this thread to begin a healing process than become a such and such said this to me once. We are adults and should begin to act as such. We are all guilty of being hotheads at some points in our lives. USE THE THREAD AS A TURNING POINT.