It's mostly men that have answered so far. I know I have had many a female friend that has done this same kind of thing, so maybe men don't get this kind of urge so often.

To answer some comments:
I have got a new life. Big style, actually ! Love and the lot. But believe me, it might take the edge of the hurt of the old one, but it still does hurt.

I can't completely forget him because we still have things to sort out so there still has to be contact.

What did he do ? If I start to explain we will miss the point ( which is that I want to stop phoning him but I don't ). Maybe I will start another thread to see if you guys can point me in the right direction with the thing that bugs me. Anyway, probably if it wasn't that it would be another thing ( I am a woman, for god's sake. ) I just need help to stop phoning him !