Humph, Bobert. Not wired right? Thank the gods that we're wired differently. snicker,

A musician friend of mine sings a charming song about "her helpless, hopeless, pathetic way of getting over me." It recounts the lengths 'she' goes to prove she no longer cares (like getting married) and ends confidently "She'll be back." I don't know who wrote it but it really is funny and certainly evokes the feelings many of us have had from time to time.

I like Bill D's remark about being glad that your ex isn't doing what you are! Frankly, I wuoldn't like my ex believing and telling other people that I can't let go.