Okay, now that my pal, Ebbie, has called me to the carpet I will put on my "Mr. Sensitive" hat...

Ahhhh, think about it this way, kitty... In relationships there are good stuff and bad stuff... In realtionships that blow up the bad stuff overtakes the good...

Now, folks being folks be they male, female or other, have an easy time gettin' the bad stuff buried deep in their tuimmy leaving the good stuff still out there to be dealt with... Now, I would guess that you are going over some of the good tapes in yer head and then wondering how Mr. Right, who once was part of the good stuff, could have done enough bad stuff to overtake the good stuff...

These are normal questions and guess what? You will never, never, never get an asnwer that you will find satisfying... Never!!! Might of fact, the more you ask, the less satisfying the answers will become until one day, Mr. Once-Right will change his phone number and send you a ltter saying, "In regards to the kids (or whatever), please leave a message with ___________. I'm sorry but..."

Like I said, next time you want to call him PM someone here or just come back to this thread or...

...join X-Callers Anonomous (XCA)...

And lastly... You say that yer life is good new and I gotr the impression that means you have a feller??? Yes, no??? Call him instead of the ex....

That will be 5 cents...

Bobert