Thanks for the words.

( "We still have stuff to sort out" doesn't refer to money, but our pets ! You might laugh, but they are more important than the money, and I am making sure I get my 50 / 50 there !)

Anyway, I have picked up some good advice here. I have moved on, really, but it still hurts when someone behaves in a way you never expected, and thge unfortunate thing is that it makes you doubt your judgement and trust less.

Thanks mudcatters. I feel better.