Thanks Mudcatters !

Last night I was feeling pretty low. It comes over me once in a while. It's not that often ... say once a month. It was a long relationship, so I am still within the "normal " limits of getting over it.

I took some of your advice and I wrote p/A ( passive agressive and A/A ( agressive / agressive ) and JA ( jail ) on stickers on my phone. It worked nicely. I will keeep those stickers on there for a while.

My new guy ( see... I have moved on, you doubting thomases ! ) asked what the sticker was for. I said just a reminder.

What we still have to sort out is .... wait for it ... our pets.... which are more important than anything else in the world ( except my my close family, of course. )

Much better now .. THanks !