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Thread #88940 Message #1675645
Posted By: Alba
22-Feb-06 - 06:24 AM
Thread Name: BS: Proposal for members only posting of BS?
Subject: RE: BS: Proposal for members only posting of BS?
"Is it perhaps a double standard for you to take issue with me for my use of the word 'our' which includes you but not take issue with Joe Offer's use of the word 'we' which excludes you?"
No. Not at all.
I see this a Public Forum, public in the sense that I can come and in and read and post and search the DT and interact.
I do not, however see it as MY Forum.
What is decided regarding what goes and what stays has nothing to do with me. I am glad to be free of that responsibilty. If I felt the driving need to have that kind of say I would start my own Forum!
When a Tech problem arises. I don't fix it.
I had nothing to do with concept of the the Mudcat Forum, I mearly joined after the fact and reaped the benefits of other people's hard work.
It is public, in the sense that it is pretty much inclusive about who can join and interact with others, a community. If I leave I won't have to resign or sell my share. I am here by choice, that's all. If at anytime I feel that I find myself disagreeing with the policies of the Owner or the Administration then I will simply, look at that and perhaps come to the conclusion that I should find another Forum that better suits my views. It's that simple for me Shambles. Really.
Unlike you Shambles, I am not on 24/7 watch here for the things that seem to come to YOUR attention about THE Forum.
Talking of double standards
"Perhaps if the likes of you and Joe do not like it - all you have to do is go through the door?
And not feel the you have any right to impose your judgement upon others.... "
Take your own advice Shambles.
So. For the last time.
Again I ask you. When you feel the desire to use the word OURS in a statement please add an aside which states that I do not wish to be included in your opinion.
Example: Our Forum (excluding Alba)
YOU can say what you like but just don't speak for me Shambles. I do not recall voting for you as a spokeperson. I do recall you asking me if I wished to be included in your abuse of the word OUR and I find it interesting that you would deny my request.
I use one standard here. My standard. If my ONE Standard bothers you. Well that is no importance to me.
You can play the "our" advocate. I have, however, no wish for you to do so on my behalf. Simple.
YOU do not speak for ME Shambles.
Please remember that.
Thank you
J