Egads not another PS -- sorry people but here it is anyway --

Just thinking -- even if he's not an Aries, Saturn is sitting in your 8th house, at 20 degrees Gemini (nowhere near the cusp, so this placement is unaffected by a few minutes difference in birthtime).

The 8th house is the house of sex and passion as well as death (highly related life experiences, it seems :-) while Saturn signifies difficulties, hardships, limitations, sorrow, karma.

Would you agree that a same-sex relationship is more difficult, more of challenge in many ways than the more usual variety (which is challenging enough already for most people)?