Daylia, wouldn't it do your life more good to just ignore them all, go play the piano, take a walk, eat a nice meal? Pretty soon they'd all get bored and go away if you did. Competitive ego needs a response to feed on. If you give it none, it wanders off in search of something else to chew on.

Yes it would, Little Hawk. ANd what you've said has been bothering me deep down for the last two weeks I've been posting here too. I usually don't bother even talking about subjects like astrology -- so controversial and 'unprovable' it's just a waste of time.
But there's a much deeper, more important and highly personal issue here I've been tackling here. One which, as you said, goes way beyond astrology. I'll tell you more sometime, if you're interested ...

Anyway, it's a gorgeous day out there too -- gonna call you in a sec, maybe we can get together this afternoon for some tunes, fresh air, and stimulating conversation? You're warned!