Michelle - An elderly lady gets off the train at Grand Central Staion and asks the porter "How do I get to Carnegie Hall?" - Needless to say , the answer is "Practice ,lady , Practice !"
Seriously , I think we have all been there , but hopefully you will keep at it and suddenly wonder just WHY you thought you had a problem .
Unless of course you have developed 'bad habits' , in which case a session with a good teacher may be of help !