Jeepers Áine, does this mean that I wouldn't be invited to a gathering or a song circle at your house?I think it's a tough question, but a relevant and interesting question. It can easily be answered without offending anyone's sensibilities or egos.
Sorry it isn't milk-toasty and watered-down enough for you....or non music-related.
.....and since when do YOU represent the other people here on Mudcat? Last time I checked, Sorcha spoke for everyone.