I agree with Wolfgang. It's difficult to understand how someone can say "If you can't say something nice then don't say anything" and then go on to call other posters assholes.

It is something that I have also long struggled with on our forum. But when Joe Offer has so often set exactly this example - I have yet to see many other posts saying they are also struggling to understand his position.

When a poster is only following the example set by a site's moderator this could be thought to be safe course to follow.........