Has it really been 5 years?

Jane, if you join Mudcat and send me a personal message, or choose to post your email address, I will send you Bob Bolton's photo of the grave. The name on the gravestone is John O'Neil Goulding. I included a little bit about him in a book that I wrote in 2003.
Since then, I've also discovered a song about him by Sigerson Clifford, a native of the same part of Kerry: Cahersiveen. If you manage to contact me, I can can give you details of a very fine recording of the song.