WLD...

"and if wishing someone a nice holiday makes me some kind of asshole - so be it. "

Just live your life mate! As I just said "You can't win, you can't break even, you can't even get out of the game!"

The only way is to live your life as you wish - if that means you want to say something nice to a publicly proven asshole because YOU are a nice person, go right ahead.

This is not criticism of you.

I accept his presence here in the same way that I accept 'grass is green' - I can't change it. When it grows too high for my comfort on the front lawn, I cut it down. When he thought I would make a good easy target, my response to him caused public remarks of the shock "we didn't think Robin would ever behave as nasty as that' type.

"Yea though I walk thru the valley of the shadow of evil, I fear no mean bastard, as thanks to all the careful nurturing I have received by mean psychotic bastards like you, I AM the meanest son of a bitch in the valley - when _I_ CHOOSE to be."

:-)


Robin