me and the wife are knocking on 50..

I wasted too much of my younger life being afraid of death.

Now I'm more afraid of growing old and incapable
and losing my health and mind and the love of people I recognise...


so is death a friend or a foe !!!!!?????


btw.. i'm an agnostic..



[ best answer wins a bottle of strong malt in the after life..
you provide the soda & ice ]