Guest/Guest, it has happened in the past that a member who was tired of the abusive entity s/he had created for her/himself asked for and got a new identity and is now a much more comfortable creature. There's no reason why someoe on the receiving end couldn't do the same thing.

But remember - as our illustrious leader said, "fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again."

In other words if you are AGAIN insulted, mocked, bullied and humiliated, have a talk with the critter in the mirror. I think that's what he meant.