Thanks Spaw. I am touched by your story and your sincerity. I am having some cake in Tristan's honour. mmmm!

On the subject of drummers - there's an offence which is AS worse. I play (outside of my phoaky universe) in a jazz combo. When the singer counts us in she counts in on the on-beats and clicks in time with her counting on the 1 - - 3 - -. It drives me crazy because it tells me she don't know how to swing (and she DON'T know how to swing!).

Aahh, it's the small aggravations that get us through the day! Callie