Clinton - I didn't think anyone would bother, either. Imagine my surprise when someone PM'd to say they were in town. I'm also surprised (and delighted) that I've received any PM's.
Martin, however, was a very threatening personality. I would hope that he wouldn't bother tracking me down but, being male, you probably do not have a clue about how it feels to be stalked.
In fact, I'd say by the quality of your posts that you don't have a clue about anyone's feelings but your own. You've mentioned a partner...lucky girl!