I decided 30-35 years ago that I didn't want to occupy a space with a headstone. Just the monuments and portraits and anthems celebrating my achievements will be enough. ;>)

I have a deal where I will be scattered on both shores of the US...some of my ashes will be sent to a friend in Seattle area.

If any part of me is worth salvaging before cremation, they may have it, though since I intend to live to be 114, I am not sure that anyone will want them.