A few years ago when I first pushed myself enough to try singing in public (as it were), I found that if I had a Penny Whistle sticking out of my handbag I was asked to join in. Then I had the opportunity to explain that I couldn't play it but that I'd try a song - that worked!

Several years on I'm still unable to 'jump in' and am always very glad when an organiser asks newcomers if they'd like to sing. Knowing this I always ask everyone who came to any Sings or Sessions that I organise and am pleased to hear that so many others here do the same.

Good thread Dave, but sorry to hear of your experience!