"...but as you may have noticed, I've been a bit under siege in this thread."

I'm not suprised.

Could it be that perhaps you're voicing an unpopular opinion in this place? You MUST know that a lot of folks here are qoing to disagree with your stand. Can you see how a lot of what you have to say would come off sounding bigoted ? And you've sounded rather dimissive of opinions that don't agree with yours.

Everyone agrees that the childs intersts should come first - but many of the things you've said end up sounding antigay. Correct me if I'm wrong.

And I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm trying to extend the inquisition. But your ideas sound so different from mine that I have trouble understanding them.