flamenco ted,
When you talk about two heterosexual men being foster parents to a young girl, are you talking about a real-world situation or are you making up a hypothetical question? If the later, why bother? We'll deal with it when it happens. If the former, are you supposing that these two guys are forming a single economic and social unit? Being a family, in other words? Or are they roommates? Are they both signing the adoption papers, or what? Really, your question has too many possible variables to be talked about coherently.

Akenaton,
Sorry, dude, it's you that's obsessed with the homosexual act. I don't think about it at all unless someone like you starts spreading your uninformed opinions around and I get sucked into a conversation about it before I figure out they're too set in their ways to even bother defending their posts. If you think you're not obsessed with the homosexual act, why did you start a thread about people who are only different than you in that they sleep with members of the same sex? How about another substitution game: everywhere you said "homosexual" in your first post, just say "people who sleep with members of the same sex".

I ask you yet again, how is this whole thread not about the homosexual act?

John Peekstok