but you can't really blame someone for not being able to face the facts when they are so horrifying.

If you don't, it only makes it more likely that in future there will be yet more horrifying facts.

The point of starting this thread was to inform our forum of facts they may not be aware of and to alert them to the sacrifice of fine people who died too young. Folk may not be awre of these facts - mainly because the facts do not really suit any side.........

Perhaps blame is not the right word. But it is about taking responsibility to try to ensure that such things are not repeated.