In a deeply moving NYPD Blue episode, Sipowicz is sitting with someone who has just lost (or is about to lose) a dear love. Sipowicz recounts his own "visitations" from his late son, and explains that it will happen when the time is right. And when it does, he assures the man, it will seem like it's real. And you don't question it, it is a help, and it's a comfort.

The point is-- just don't question it. If it brings healing, then whether it's something we do with our minds or it really comes from beyond, who care-- if it brings healing, let it come and let it work its healing.

And I'm happy for ANY healing you get, for this or for anything else.

~Susan