OK, Jerry and everybody, I have a question I hope you can help with.

As you know, my housesitter didn't really do a sterling job--couldn't even tell us which of our cats had been seen in days. So I had to come home early. But it didn't really bother me. And I still love to hear her play the piano and sing.

But now--Jan is so annoyed at her she says she never wants to see her again--i.e. she will never be welcome in the house if Jan is there.

So what--if anything--can I do about it.? As far as I'm concerned the more friends the better. And it's self-defeating to cut yourself off from somebody--without really good cause---especially a talented musician. (OK so I'm not an unbiased observer here.)