You know, Sorcha, this is just one woman's approach, but I decided a long time ago not to approach these experiences in terms of belief or disbelief. I used to get real hung up fretting about the "reality" or meaning of this kind of experience. And I could get real bent out of shape arguing about it but it just left me frazzled to no purpose.

They are what they are. I don't know how they happen. I don't know that they mean anything -- but I suspect they do, and I tend to act as if they do.

For this reason I just loved what Helen wrote, I am so grateful to that young man for giving in to his instincts and singing that song. Yes.