Gossip? More like I have never heard of such a thing and was quite taken by surprise. Again, it just doesn't fit into what I consider love. I can understand a disagreement and not feeling close to each other (so no sex is happening) but for it to be a one sided decision and used as leverage, that just isn't love. Call me old fashioned, but if it's not about love, it's not worth having. The power trip thing is beyond me.