The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #18165   Message #178967
Posted By: Joe Offer
15-Feb-00 - 06:26 PM
Thread Name: Help: Shall I volunteer to help 'Cat by...
Subject: RE: Help: Shall I volunteer to help 'Cat by...
Hi, Praise - I suppose you notice that I repeat myself quite often. I have a text file with standard Forum and e-mail responses to the problems that crop up on a regular basis, and I know how to do blue clicky thingies in my sleep and in Technicolor. There's room for a lot of this kind of help from people. Although our guests sometimes do things that seem reeeeally strange to us, I would hope that Mudcatters would continue to be kind and patient toward them. Still, I really would like to understand why people put song requests in the Help Forum or in HTML practice threads - there must be a logic there, but I don't understand it.
I suppose it might be helpful to list a few good things Mudcatters could do:

Well, I think that's a pretty good start. If you want to help, try to do so in a friendly way, and without appearing condescending. The latter borders on being impossible. If you know something somebody else doesn't or can do something somebody else can't, that somebody is very likely to think you condescending, even if you have the humility of Gandhi - I know that from personal experience.

-Joe Offer®-