Good point Bunnahabhain, sadly what I do notice where I live, is a lot of these young girls are used and you see wasters come and go to their houses. It's maybe hard to get a young guy prepared to get involved in a relationship with someone else's kids in it. It can be a knockback for some girls hoping that they think they found Mr. right and he's off again once fed. Sadly the phrase, A woman gives sex in search of love and a man gives love in search of sex comes to mind.