Chongo, your problem is that you're a friggin' chimp! You chimps, as a group, are so damned repressed that when one of you does finally loosen up a bit and let his hair down he friggin' "falls in love" with whatever he's been stickin' his doink into. Lighten up! It's just sex! It's physical and it's fun. You want love, get a dog. They're no fun to fuck, but they don't leave.