oh and just for the record:

Jon on your own site - you make the rules or can choose to ignore any when you feel like it. If you do not personally like a contributor to your site - you can judge and treat them as you wish as you do not have to answer to anyone.

Acutally I don't hold that outright power anywhere, not even on the sites you might be considering to be my sites, although I do have an administration say in a couple of places.

Anyway time for me to make another attempt at keeping out of all these shambles debates...