Hey up "Guest too old...." Whitby is a great place to not have sex. I think weelittledrummer's advice is absolutely sound on this matter. I hope the new, platonic friendship is a success with this guy.

And to Paul - Deryshire is indeed a county worth boasting about, and I am jealous that you live in one of the really pretty bits, whereas I am further north in the land of the Crooked Spire - good market but not so pretty!