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Thread #93705   Message #1814667
Posted By: Genie
20-Aug-06 - 07:10 PM
Thread Name: BS: Good excuses for refusing sex
Subject: RE: BS: Good excuses for refusing sex
QUOTE: Bill D - Date: 10 Aug 06 - 11:27 AM

well, once IN bed is no time to announce your lack of interest. ...
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Um, what if you're already sound asleep (and went there for that reason)? ;-D


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Of course, you could always try, "It's been so long I forgot how."


On a serious note, I kind of feel like whichever party in a relationship WANTS sex should maybe use their powers of persuasion and seduction instead of asking for or expecting sex.
And if you have reasons for not WANTING to be turned on (e.g., you have a serious case of crotch rot or you're saving yourself for Mr/Miss Right - or both), well, the two of you need to talk about that.

Genie