My husband and I went to Maui with 3 other couple in 1996 and stayed together in a science fiction writer's condo. (he was not with us - would that he was, he's a funny guy) The other couples were all related to science fiction, comics and film somehow and my husband and I were both the youngest people there. We were 30 and 32 and every one else was 40 or older. Well, there we were on tropical island of immense beauty for heavens sake and saturday night rolls around. What do they all want to do? Watch ST: Deep Space 9 and that godawful ST wannabee Babylon 5.

They all watched bad TV while my husand and I went on the Lanai and had Chi Chis (which is not to say we had sex - chi chis are a form of alcoholic libation involving pineapple juice I believe)