Yes, look into work study. Thats how my daughter is paying her way. Its a good option and the work she is doing now will actually count towards her professional development (appreticeship).

Hesperis - If I can do it, anyone can do it.

I arrived at university with two kids, their bunk beds tied to the top of my old volvo, some bedding and clothing and a few pots and pans. I was penniless and without a home. I also had no family to back me. It took me seven years to do what most do in five years but I graduated. Best of all, my daughter is very close to becoming an environmental architecht.

Without a doubt, we have broken the cycle of poverty and you can too.

Just do it! If the boyfriend is holding you back, dump him. He needs to take care of himself. Its not your responsibility.